coParenter is a social venture intent on improving child, parent and family wellbeing by disrupting the cycle of conflict that often accompanies coParenting through separation and divorce.

The ACE Study is the largest and longest research study ever conducted that seeks to monitor connections between long term well-being and chronic stress caused by exposure to early adversity. The study looked at multiple categories of childhood abuse and neglect and measures for household dysfunction like parental mental illness, domestic violence, substance abuse and high-conflict separation/divorce. The study started as a partnership between Kaiser Permanente and the U.S. Center for Disease Control and Prevention.

After more than 20 years of longitudinal and latitudinal research the ACEs Study confirms that the Toxic Stress that accumulates in children exposed to adverse childhood experiences, carry that toxicity into adulthood. Unlike manageable stress, Toxic Stress forces long-term changes in brain architecture and organ systems. ACEs put children at a higher risk for emotional problems, developmental issues learning difficulties, and long-term health problems.

To learn more about ACEs or the ACEs Study, click here: https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/acestudy/

By providing tools that help parents stay out of court, minimize conflict and focus on the needs of their children, we are helping parents develop new skills to be better coParents. Better coParents leads to happier children. And happier children make the world a better place.


Every minute a parent spends preparing for court, every dollar they spend on attorneys & specialists, every ounce of energy they use to to maneuver, position or gain leverage is another minute, dollar or ounce not spent with their child.


Decreasing Conflict
in high conflict families, the ability to parent effectively is impaired . Conflict can preoccupy and distract parents from their children, so much so that they can not truly attend to their children’s needs. Parenting practices such as simple coordination, management, scheduling and disincline structures become less consistent and more coercive.


Increasing Piece of Mind
Despite our best intentions, we know some parents will end up in court. That’s why we’ve designed coParenter to safely document communication and engagement between coParents with easy export for third-party review. This means judges, attorneys and validated 3rd parties can access authenticated evidence of every message, coParenting request and attempt to resolve disagreements without court intervention.


Not only could this type evidence dramatically reduce ‘He Said/She Said’ that regularly frustrates courts, but these records could also have profound impact and influence on:

Legal and Physical Custody Decisions
Attorney Fees
Support payments
Parenting Plan Modifications
And more...

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Going to Court Can Make a Bad Situation Much Worse


In family court, it is easy to feel that no one wins...there are simply degrees of loss. Courts are adversarial by design which works for other types of cases but with families, fighting in court regularly leads to ongoing and increasingly intense parental conflict outside of court, which is known to be extremely harmful to children. The process of advocacy ignites the worst possible outcomes within families.  Once the Family Court case begins two otherwise capable parents now may not be able to agree on a parenting plan, communicate respectfully, manage everyday coParenting responsibilities and resolve even the simplest conflicts without legal intervention. Life as they knew it spins out of control with emotions and money being spent in unforgiving quantities.  Parents who were once focused on the best interests of their child are now preoccupied with demeaning, discrediting and diminishing each other through court filings, motions and proceedings.


coParenter provides tools, insight and support that helps coParents avoid the pitfalls of conflict and court and the emotional, economic and psychological stress it forces families to endure.